There comes a point in your loved one's life that you feel as though the only choice you have is to have them move into your home.  This is a huge decision, as it is a huge adjustment for you and for your loved one.  They must be made to feel comfortable, and be able to live a happy life there.  Here are some ways to get prepared to have a loved one move into your home. 

Find them the right space

It is usually best for an elderly loved one to be on the main level of a home.  When there are stairs involved, you may be dealing with more falls and safety issues.  If there are no bedrooms on your main level, perhaps you could convert another room into their space.  You may even consider switching a child's room for their room so that they can be on the main level.  Consider converting a basement room or an attic room into a new space for an older child or teenager.  Your elderly loved one's new room needs to be comfortable and give them access to a bathroom, the kitchen, and a place to relax and read or watch TV. 

Make their space familiar

When you are moving a loved one into your home, try to use some of their furniture or bedding in order for them to feel at home.  This will allow them to feel like it is their space.  Allow them to have their own phone in order to stay in touch with friends outside of your home.  This also comes in handy if there is an emergency.  Bringing their pet into your home will also give them companionship and familiarity when they are living in your home. 

Make their space safe 

Safety is extremely important when moving an elderly loved one into your home. 

• You should install grab bars in the bathrooms, non-slip mats in the tub and shower, and secure all throw rugs that may be a tripping hazard.
• Consider area rugs and have safe walkways on slick floors so that they do not slip.
• Doors, cabinets, and drawers should all be easy to open.
• You may find that you need a ramp outside to make it easier to get in and out of the home, especially if they use a wheelchair. 
• Steps may require a stair-lift, such as from Lincoln Mobility, if their room is not on the main level. 
• Arrange furniture so that it is easy to get around in the home.
• Remove furniture that has sharp corners, or purchase bumpers that will fit over the corners and edges.  Also get rid of unsteady chairs that can be hazardous to your loved one. 
• Make sure that the lighting in your home is good, and that your entryways, halls, and walkways are well lit.
• It is important to keep rooms and floors clear of toys, blankets, pillows, or anything that could cause someone to fall.  If you have children, instruct them to always clean up their messes after they are finished playing. 
• You may need to install sensors on doors, especially if you are dealing with someone with Alzheimer's.  You need to know if anyone is leaving the house or attempting to go outside.

There are many things that you must do to prepare for your loved one to come to your home to live.  The most important thing is that they are safe, feel comfortable, feel a part of the family, and have a good quality of life in their later years.